how fighting for something can destroy what you want and how to get more of what you want

The Cloak of Shame - It’s all torture, headaches, torment, an aching pit in the gut, judgement, criticism, blame, regret, shame and a poisonous self-hate. Shame causes us to devalue ourselves devalue others create situations and circumstances that keep proving our feelings of worthlessness, feelings of inadequacy, feelings of our inability to measure up and feelings of uselessness and will often lead us to thinking more about others than ourselves, or making assumptions or st